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A guide to changing your identity.
You can change and it’s not that hard.
So, you’re not happy about who you are right now?
It happens to all of us. Whether we get stuck with an unfulfilling career, unsatisfying relationship, we achieve our goals and feel empty afterwards or something else. Whatever it is…
You can change.
Maybe even — you should change. Evolve.
And the good news is — it’s not that hard. I won’t lie to you, it might take time tho. It might be a week, but it might also take you a few months. But don’t get discouraged. It needs to be done, so no point in wasting any more time.
Let’s start.
1. Realise who you really are now
Who are you? The best way to answer (at least for me) is to journal. So just take out some piece of paper or a notes app and go for it. Try not to be judgemental and just answer truly.
Where are you now in life? In your career? In your friend group? With your family?
Are you happy?
What would you want to tomorrow if you could do anything?
What would you like to do in a month if you could do anything?
Do your relationships bring you joy and satisfaction?
Do you have clarity about what would you like your life to be like?
